Communication requires honesty and sometimes honesty requires you to be brave. You can’t be afraid to have hard conversations.
The fact is, there are times we don’t communicate and say the things we want to say because of fear. I am not one to believe that difficult things are better left unsaid. Instead, you have to push through and have those hard conversations. Whether it’s about feelings, relationships or even finances.
Here are a few ways you can communicate about the hard subjects like a Queen.
- Psych Yourself Up: Take a moment and write down the times you felt powerful. Revel in that! Breathe them in. Power removes fear. Use your experiences to drive the power within and remove the fear in order for you to be ready for that hard conversation.
- Visualize a Positive Outcome: Visualize the conversation going exactly how you want it to be from start to end. Take a few minutes. Sit in a quiet space. Open your heart and your mind to the conversation and play it out. It may seem silly at first but once you are done, you will feel much more confident when approaching a difficult conversation.
- Roleplay: Grab a friend and talk it out. Run through the conversation with a friend. By the time you actually have that hard talk, it won’t be the first time you had to speak those words.
Remember, you can be a better communicator AND you can communicate with no fear. Give it a try and let me know how it went!
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Bye for now